Thursday, July 22, 2010
Another Pinky Baby
Being the breastfeeding fanatic that I am, I don't really do pacifiers the first 6 weeks. G and D took to sucking on my pinky finger over a pacifier and looks like little Mera is no different.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Born Friends
This is my friend Eva's baby who was due 4 weeks before Mera and was delivered 2 weeks early. They are almost 8 weeks apart and about the same size.
Saturday, July 17, 2010
MJ Day as Daddy Remembers It
Virginia is asleep with Mera Jane right now, so I thought I'd relate yesterday's events before they get lost among all the thoughts of home runs and ERA.
Around 5 a.m. Friday morning, I wasn't able to sleep, so Virginia rolled over in bed and said, "You know I'm in labor, right?" No, at least at that point, labor was akin to waking with a full head of hair. But there it was, proof that Mera Jane wouldn't actually go through puberty in her mama's belly.
Charged by the news, I took a shower and waited to welcome my baby girl to the world after the midwife, Ruth Cobb, pulled her from the home birthing pool. Trouble was, contractions stalled around 7 a.m. Ugh. Still, we didn't lose hope.
Aunt Bob arrived from Stillwater around 8:30 a.m., just in time to help me take the girls to school. God bless Boston Avenue for letting Georgia and Darby go on a day they'd ordinarily stay home. And thanks to Mary Byrne for picking up the kids, then keeping them for the rest of the day and into the night.
Around 2:30 p.m., Virginia and I headed to Ruth's house in west Tulsa to see if she could strip Virginia's membranes. Sounds gross, and it is, but it basically kick-started contractions.
By 8 p.m., I finished putting Darby to bed, then waited with the midwife's assistant, Brandi, Aunt Kiki and Bob in the living room. Along the way, I had an enlightening talk with Brandi, a mother of five, about the wonders of home birth and just parenthood in general. Great lady.
Finally, around 9:30 p.m., concerns of Virginia not deliving the baby until the next day, quickly scooted on by. I've seen Virginia in the midst of childbirth, so I could tell that the aggression in her voice meant Mera Jane would soon get her eviction notice.
At 10: 20 p.m., Virginia stepped into the 100-degree birth pool set on getting the job done in a hurry, even if that meant Brandi had to deliver Mera Jane instead of Ruth. But, around 10:35 p.m., Ruth made it through the thunder storm in time to hear Virginia rattle off some of her choice cuss words, and her expected, but not too serious, pleas for an epidural and c-section. We got many of Virginia's hilarious comments, along with two raised middle fingers, on video. Can't wait to watch the video with her.
Ruth, who is a blessing to our family, is something of a pregnant-lady-whisperer. She put us all at ease, even Virginia, as Mera Jane made her way towards the vertical exit. As Virginia often said in the hours after the birth, it all hurt really, really bad, but Viriginia once again proved she is the bravest, strongest, grittiest gal this side of the Byrne Ranch. After all, at 11:03 p.m., Mera came out 9 pounds, 6 ounces. A very big baby with darling cheeks a good cry.
The birth, just like Darby's, went by in a hurry. I remember a ribbon of blood, followed by a gurgle of bubbles, then Mera Jane's head was in Ruth's hands. Then mine.
Welcome to the family, baby girl.
Thanks so much to everyone who helped make the birth such a beautiful event, especially Bob, who was with me for the birth of all three of my amazing girls. She is comic relief in a time when nerves tear me up and throw me down. My mother prayed many a "Hail Mary" for baby Mera. God smiled. Thanks Mom. Mary Byrne, thanks for being there for all of us. I can only hope Mera Jane has the superpowers of both her grandmothers. Dad, you showed me how it's done. Debo, please help me teach Mera the difference between a slider and a cut fastball. Matt Byrne, I can't wait til you feel what I felt last night. Kiki, I'm so glad you got to see my baby girl come into the world. Thanks for catching it all on video, even the gross parts. Vivian, Mera's blessed to have a cousin like you, but that doesn't mean you can buy her beer some day. To my own brother and sister, I can't wait to show off my baby girl. And, finally, Virginia, I love you. It'd break my arms to show you how much. Now stop laughing at how cheesy I'm being.
Around 5 a.m. Friday morning, I wasn't able to sleep, so Virginia rolled over in bed and said, "You know I'm in labor, right?" No, at least at that point, labor was akin to waking with a full head of hair. But there it was, proof that Mera Jane wouldn't actually go through puberty in her mama's belly.
Charged by the news, I took a shower and waited to welcome my baby girl to the world after the midwife, Ruth Cobb, pulled her from the home birthing pool. Trouble was, contractions stalled around 7 a.m. Ugh. Still, we didn't lose hope.
Aunt Bob arrived from Stillwater around 8:30 a.m., just in time to help me take the girls to school. God bless Boston Avenue for letting Georgia and Darby go on a day they'd ordinarily stay home. And thanks to Mary Byrne for picking up the kids, then keeping them for the rest of the day and into the night.
Around 2:30 p.m., Virginia and I headed to Ruth's house in west Tulsa to see if she could strip Virginia's membranes. Sounds gross, and it is, but it basically kick-started contractions.
By 8 p.m., I finished putting Darby to bed, then waited with the midwife's assistant, Brandi, Aunt Kiki and Bob in the living room. Along the way, I had an enlightening talk with Brandi, a mother of five, about the wonders of home birth and just parenthood in general. Great lady.
Finally, around 9:30 p.m., concerns of Virginia not deliving the baby until the next day, quickly scooted on by. I've seen Virginia in the midst of childbirth, so I could tell that the aggression in her voice meant Mera Jane would soon get her eviction notice.
At 10: 20 p.m., Virginia stepped into the 100-degree birth pool set on getting the job done in a hurry, even if that meant Brandi had to deliver Mera Jane instead of Ruth. But, around 10:35 p.m., Ruth made it through the thunder storm in time to hear Virginia rattle off some of her choice cuss words, and her expected, but not too serious, pleas for an epidural and c-section. We got many of Virginia's hilarious comments, along with two raised middle fingers, on video. Can't wait to watch the video with her.
Ruth, who is a blessing to our family, is something of a pregnant-lady-whisperer. She put us all at ease, even Virginia, as Mera Jane made her way towards the vertical exit. As Virginia often said in the hours after the birth, it all hurt really, really bad, but Viriginia once again proved she is the bravest, strongest, grittiest gal this side of the Byrne Ranch. After all, at 11:03 p.m., Mera came out 9 pounds, 6 ounces. A very big baby with darling cheeks a good cry.
The birth, just like Darby's, went by in a hurry. I remember a ribbon of blood, followed by a gurgle of bubbles, then Mera Jane's head was in Ruth's hands. Then mine.
Welcome to the family, baby girl.
Thanks so much to everyone who helped make the birth such a beautiful event, especially Bob, who was with me for the birth of all three of my amazing girls. She is comic relief in a time when nerves tear me up and throw me down. My mother prayed many a "Hail Mary" for baby Mera. God smiled. Thanks Mom. Mary Byrne, thanks for being there for all of us. I can only hope Mera Jane has the superpowers of both her grandmothers. Dad, you showed me how it's done. Debo, please help me teach Mera the difference between a slider and a cut fastball. Matt Byrne, I can't wait til you feel what I felt last night. Kiki, I'm so glad you got to see my baby girl come into the world. Thanks for catching it all on video, even the gross parts. Vivian, Mera's blessed to have a cousin like you, but that doesn't mean you can buy her beer some day. To my own brother and sister, I can't wait to show off my baby girl. And, finally, Virginia, I love you. It'd break my arms to show you how much. Now stop laughing at how cheesy I'm being.
Mera Jane Alice Gleason is Here!
Welcome to the family, baby girl. She arrived at 11:03 Friday night. She weighs 9 pounds, 6 ounces. She was 11 days late, but we'll forgive her ... some day. Virginia's doing great. She's amazing. She really is.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
ENT Appointment
We had our appt. with Dr. Hamilton, the most recommended ENT in town for what we are doing. We waited 2 months for this appt. and can you believe I was worried about having the baby and missing the appt. on June 30th. Ha Ha. The main goal was to see about having a CT Scan done of G's ears to determine if there is a cause for her hearing loss. We learned two basic things:
#1 The CT Scan is mostly used to diagnose Enlarged Vestibular Aqueduct Syndrome.
If she has this, it would be important for us to know and mean her loss is progressive.
#2 Only about 5% of kids with a hearing loss scanned have this.
So our plan right now is to have her hearing retested this month and if there is no change again in 3 months. At that point we can decide if we want to spend the money and more importantly, have her sedated, to do the CT Scan. The Dr. said you don't normally have to sedate for a CT Scan but then he tried to examine her and saw what he was dealing with. She is not a good patient, needless to say.
I was happy with the appt. and feel confident we are on the right path for her. Now if I could just give birth...
#1 The CT Scan is mostly used to diagnose Enlarged Vestibular Aqueduct Syndrome.
If she has this, it would be important for us to know and mean her loss is progressive.
#2 Only about 5% of kids with a hearing loss scanned have this.
So our plan right now is to have her hearing retested this month and if there is no change again in 3 months. At that point we can decide if we want to spend the money and more importantly, have her sedated, to do the CT Scan. The Dr. said you don't normally have to sedate for a CT Scan but then he tried to examine her and saw what he was dealing with. She is not a good patient, needless to say.
I was happy with the appt. and feel confident we are on the right path for her. Now if I could just give birth...
Readers
I love that I am raising readers. While I don't love to read to the girls, I make a real effort to do it.
They both love to look at books and Darby will actually "read" by memory a lot of her board books.
Georgia spends alone time at night in her bed with her books. I went in to check on her the other night and found her asleep like this.
They both love to look at books and Darby will actually "read" by memory a lot of her board books.
Georgia spends alone time at night in her bed with her books. I went in to check on her the other night and found her asleep like this.
Dancing Queens
These girls love to dance and wrestle. It's bad when you have to worry about your 2-year0old hurting your 4-year-old.
Her new favorite thing to do is say, "watch this," and then do something outrageous and twisted with her little body.
Her new favorite thing to do is say, "watch this," and then do something outrageous and twisted with her little body.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
41 w 1 d
So for all those not my FB friends I am still pregnant. I had an appt. with my MW today but she was on a birth and I stupidly failed to check my messages before I headed to her house. I don't know if I get to be more disgruntled about driving all the way out there or about someone else getting to have her baby. It's a toss up. As soon as my MW gets done I am sure she will call me and reschedule.
For the record, I feel fine, the baby is staying active, and I have no ill effects of going past my due date besides impatience. Also, everyone should keep in mind that a normal gestation is 37 to 42 weeks so I am still in the normal range. Thanks for all the thoughts and I will be sure and let everyone know when I go into labor!
For the record, I feel fine, the baby is staying active, and I have no ill effects of going past my due date besides impatience. Also, everyone should keep in mind that a normal gestation is 37 to 42 weeks so I am still in the normal range. Thanks for all the thoughts and I will be sure and let everyone know when I go into labor!
Thursday, July 08, 2010
Music
Georgia is always willing to take her ears out when I suggest it. Just now we were listening to Hey Soul Sister by Train getting ready to take a shower and I told her to take her ears out while I was thinking about it. She said "No, I want to listen to the music." Such a wonderful sign to me. Now I just have to remember to take them out when the song is over. She is my dancing queen.
P.S. I am still pregnant.
P.S. I am still pregnant.
Sunday, July 04, 2010
Happy 4th and Pregnancy Update
It's July 4th and I am still pregnant. I am not surprised, just a little disappointed. I am so ready to meet the little person in my stomach and introduce her to my other sweet girls. My due date is not until tomorrow and Darby was 4 days late so I am not too surprised that I have not had the baby yet. I guess I am just too inhabitable. We got the pool set up last Thursday and now all I have to worry about is climbing in an having a baby. I hope it is sooner rather than later but I won't be surprised if I don't go into labor for another week. I know everyone around me is anxious for me to have the baby but believe me, I am the most anxious. Here is G with the tub.
Hopefully my next post will be baby news but I will try to get some pictures from tonight up tomorrow.
Hopefully my next post will be baby news but I will try to get some pictures from tonight up tomorrow.
Blue Bell
We went to Blue Bell's Days of Summer last week and for $5 got all you can eat ice cream and novelties. Georgia really enjoyed the tour of the factory and it always cracks me up that my kids know industrial terms like "pallets" and "forklift." I guess this is what I would expect with them growing up in a manufacturing plant. We hit the Jupiter Jumps first which the girls always love. 
Darby is not a huge sweets fan but she tried some things and did okay. Here she is with a cherry Popsicle and Daddy.
Look at the size of that tongue.
She also wanted one of these giant rainbow pops.
Georgia on the other hand tore it up. She ate a cherry Popsicle,
two cups of cotton candy ice cream,
and this monster called a Megabite.
She finished it all.
Darby is not a huge sweets fan but she tried some things and did okay. Here she is with a cherry Popsicle and Daddy.
Look at the size of that tongue.
She also wanted one of these giant rainbow pops.
Georgia on the other hand tore it up. She ate a cherry Popsicle,
two cups of cotton candy ice cream,
and this monster called a Megabite.
She finished it all.
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Big News
Most people who know me know I am a pretty laid back mom. I don't force my kids into things they aren't ready for. For example, G has slept in a crib with no sign of wanting out. I have tried taking the side off and end up in her room at 2am putting it back on. Well with the new baby coming and such a big change happening, I though it would be wise to get her out of her crib. We bought a twin mattress and put it in her floor and told her she didn't have to sleep in it but it was there if she wanted to. The first night she woke up twice. The first time to find her pacifier (which is a whole other story) and the second time she wanted in the crib (at 5:30 am). Since then it has been smooth sailing and she has done great with it. It is so nice to have her wander out in the living room in the morning with a big "Good morning." I am sure she feels good about being such a "big girl." I would also like to note, she never ever climbed out of her crib, which is why most kids end up transitioning to a regular bed and we never saw a need.
I took these pictures right after she fell asleep the other night. Out A/C had gone out so she was staying cool. Notice the "icy bear" on the top of her head. She had a bump from school and she insisted on taking her ice pack to bed with her.
I took these pictures right after she fell asleep the other night. Out A/C had gone out so she was staying cool. Notice the "icy bear" on the top of her head. She had a bump from school and she insisted on taking her ice pack to bed with her.
Mischief
Whenever the house gets quiet and I am trying to get things done I have to make the choice between interrupting the mess that is being made of just cleaning it up later and getting done whatever I am trying to get done. It never fails, when there is silence, there is mess. I came out this week to find G "washing" D's hair with lotion.
Don't get me wrong, Darby was helping.
We have a little stream that runs on the edge of our land when it rains really hard and the girls love to play in it and splash all the puddles. They also like to jump over it.
Super G.
She is looking so grown up to me lately.
This one just looks cute.
Don't get me wrong, Darby was helping.
We have a little stream that runs on the edge of our land when it rains really hard and the girls love to play in it and splash all the puddles. They also like to jump over it.
Super G.
She is looking so grown up to me lately.
This one just looks cute.
Turtle Girl
As stated before, Darby LOVES turtles. I found this little guy last Sunday crossing the road and had to stop and get him. We kept him all day and pulled him around the house in the wagon wherever we went.
Turtles just make her so happy.
Giving him the sideways glance.
Close.
Closer.
We did finally let him go in hopes of seeing him again another day.
Turtles just make her so happy.
Giving him the sideways glance.
Close.
Closer.
We did finally let him go in hopes of seeing him again another day.
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